New at this!

I'm new at this blogger thing. Can anyone help me?

Our History.

I was born and raised in Aiea, Hawaii. I love the life I lived there and with my many mistakes, I've been able to become the person I am today. I have been blessed with an amazing family. I have 4 older brothers and 1 younger sister. Growing up with many brothers is why I am a tom boy at heart. I'm not afraid to be challenged, to lose, and to admit I'm wrong. Though Stephen would say that I never go down without a fight. I love and live to surf. Most of my memories are of surfing or spending time with family and friends at the beach. The ocean would be my second home...and I'm torn whether to call Hawaii or Georgia my first home. I know one thing for sure is that wherever Stephen is, is where my heart is, and if that's home, then Georgia is home right now.

Stephen was born and raised in Acworth, Georgia. He loves life and lives for life. Many of his childhood memories are playing in the woods, playing sports, playing handball, traveling the world and spending time with his family. He has 4 brothers, 3 sisters and is number 7 of 8 kids. He knows what it means to sacrifice and work hard and he's gotten where he is today by that. Since I'm writing about him, I get to tell you what he'd never admit or say. Stephen is one of the most considerate people ever. He is constantly thinking of others before himself. He'll put his whole life on hold to accomodate yours. He's the best person to talk to if you need reassurance or just a boost in your self esteem. There is no one better for me than him. Stephen loves to talk, and he'll talk about you and listen to you talk about you for hours if that's what you want. He is one the most trustworthy people ever and he can keep a secret from anyone, even me. He'll tell you the truth with love and tactfulness if he knows you're ready for it, and if not, he'll be sure to love, support and encourage you no matter what. He loves to make others laugh and have a good time. Even if it makes him (or me!) look silly. He has a special spirit to him that naturally draws positive people around him because he's not afraid to be who he is, and stand for what he believes in. He'll even encourage others to stand for what he believes in. Stephen is also an incredibly smart man and he loves to learn. He pretty much knows everything about anything and everything, and if he doesn't know, he'll read and research till he knows. One of his favorite shows is Jeopardy. He also loves to watch the History Channel, Discovery Channel, Speed Network, Comedy Central, Tru TV and HGTV(because I make him watch with me!). One of his favorite shows are those "Worlds Most Outrageous Cop Chases Caught on Tape" shows. In a nutsell if there are any words that I could use to describe Stephen it would be easy going, active, loving, loyal and trustworthy.

I met Stephen when I moved to Georgia in the summer of 2005 for school. I was transfering from the University of Hawai'i after going there for 6 semesters to attend Life University to complete my Bachelors in Biology. Well, as the Lord would have it(which I am so glad!), Stephen and I quickly fell in love. He propsed less than 2 months after our first date, and we were sealed less than 6 months after our first date. December 30th, 2005 made it official. During that short period we learned a lot about each other. I learned that under his sarcasm, quick mouth, and firecracker personality that he's a true dork inside. He loves classic rock, he loves to flirt, he loves to watch and play sports, and he loves me♥ He found out early on in our dating relationship that I too am sarcastic, quick with come backs and am a dork at heart as well. He learned that I love reggae, love to dance and that I share the same love and appreciation of a good football game and getting out to play any sport. We both found out that we love to compete as well...which doesn't mix well when we're on opposing teams. But if you ever get to see us on the same team we are a power house in whatever we do, whether is playing sports, cards, board games or fighting the trials of life. We do it well together and we'll even trash talk while we're at it.

After anxiously awaiting the day we were able to be sealed, I put school on hold and worked to sustain us. Throughout the many trials that newly weds face, Stephen and I live by our motto which is "bet on every disagreement". We've come to find the good in each other through these bets. And I have to admit, I always lose. Or I somehow I get talked into doing things for him, by him, even when I win a bet. In the meantime of giving up our single lives and embracing a new life together, Stephen was in school at Kennesaw State University finishing his Bachelors in Business Management and Accounting and his Minor in Spanish. He graduated in July 2007 and is now working at one of the worlds top accounting firms, Ernst & Young. I couldn't be more proud of his accomplishments. We've also been able to get into our first house, which we love making our home. I've become obsessed with painting and I'll do it just for therapy. I've even painted our guest room 4 different times since we've been in our home this past year. I love the change, and painting's a cheap fix for change. I must say, we've been so incredibly blessed these past couple of years!

With all of lifes changes, we've learned that not all things are planned the way we think is best. We've also learned that sometimes when those things aren't our plans, those are the most precious moments to really enjoy the ride we're experienceing together. We found out we were pregnant a few months after our first anniversary. We had hoped for plans of traveling, saving, spending and enjoying our life with each other. Little did we know that after having Caisen we were still able to travel, save, spend and enjoy life together. Having our little guy has really shed a new light on what it means to enjoy life. My love for my Heavenly Father has never been so overwhemingly great. And my love for my husband who has now become the father of my child has never been so special. It's like falling in love again with someone. I love the feeling of loving my husband, but now I get to double that feeling and fall in love again with the father of my child. And not only do I get to love him, I also get to love my precious little sweetheart. Becoming a mommy is such an amazing experience. I love the smile Caisen gives me when we're playing. He is such a happy baby and has such an easy going personality. It's so special to know that he loves me back as much as I love him. Stephen has been such an incredible daddy. He transitioned into fatherhood smoothly and immediately picked up his role even before Caisen was born. Caisen came on his exact due date and since then Stephen has been so good about picking up the extra household chores, getting Caisen in the middle of the night for me, and working all at the same time. I couldn't ask for more!

Since Caisen was born, he and I were able to go home and visit my family! Thanks to Stephen he was able to let us go for a week while he stayed back and worked. I know it wasn't easy for him and I really appreciate him letting me kidnap our son at 4 weeks old. Traveling was so easy with him. He slept the whole time on the airplane. What a trooper! After 13 long hours, we finally made it. We were greeted with 80 degree weather in the middle of December and a warm smile from my Auntie. Caisen and I were able to surprise my family! And that was priceless. I never thought I'd miss my family soo much, but having Caisen has given me a new appreciation for family and especially my parents. I all of a sudden understand the love that parents have for their children, and why they do what they do. I can totally see myself quoting my mom as I try to discipline Caisen as a teenager. Yikes! Since he's been here, life has been chaotic, fun, and surreal.